The beauty of this struggle to send our project is the connection we make sharing the struggle with others, it is the focus we must cultivate, an inner stillness that allows us to remember the nuances. The sense of inner strength to fail again and be patient, curious of how to not fail. The final ingredient is the ability to let go of the struggle, even before completing the route without falling.
If your ascents don't have all these ingredients, I would suggest you could be climbing harder.
My mother used to say, "God only gives you what you can handle." Maybe she was right. Or maybe we learn how to handle struggle because of the adversity along the way teaching us what we are capable of. Either way, in struggle, there is the gift of new growth, maturity. In the ease, the opportunity for gratitude and appreciation.